We respond to our kids like we respond to each other based on the message that's conveyed, not the grammaticality of the utterances.

我们对孩子的反应和对他人的反应一样,都是基于表达的信息内容,而不是表达的语法正确性

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Whereas most utterances purport to be saying something true about the actual state of things in the world, literary utterance is under no such obligation, the argument goes, and ought properly to be understood as fiction making it up as opposed to referring.

大多数言辞都是对事物的真实状况的,真实反映，而这种观点认为，文学没有这个义务，应该把文学理解为小说,它是虚构而不是实指。

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