Think of the quarter you see the quarter note that's the beat.

你看到的四分音符就是拍

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So it's not to be sexist. Assume this is the she and this is the he, so she would like to go and see Matt Damon beat people up and coordinate on that, her favorite thing.

无性别歧视,假设这是女方这是男方,她就想看马特·达蒙把敌人打得落花流水,她很希望通过协调能一起看这部电影

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