I think, for example, in my own relationships,talks about my marriage, where I have to be vulnerable, I have to take a risk, where in fact I have to be willing to change my mind about my reading of the situation, based on my own fears and insecurities and anxieties.

举我自己的感情，我的婚姻作为例子吧，在婚姻中我会很脆弱，我必须冒险，而且，我必须愿意去改变自己,对当前状况的解读，不安全感和焦虑的影响而变得盲目。

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And it really destroyed my first marriage, so it really hurt.

它毁掉了我的婚姻，所以它真的伤害了我。

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