So, this is the sadness of the novel.It's this unrequited love; Dean is never capable of loving Sal in the same way that Sal loves Dean.

所以这也是这本小说的悲伤，是这个无回报的爱情;,迪安从没能真正像萨尔爱他一样爱过萨尔。

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But in closing, I just, by way of blessing, I hope that you will follow what you love after Princeton and know that you always have a loving home here, among many of us in our hearts and also at our table sides.

不过在结束的时候，我只想，作为一种祝福，我希望离开普林斯顿，您能追随您爱的事物,并且记得在这儿您一直有一个温馨的家，您会一直在我们身边，也在我们的心里。

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Well, as I say, different theories would try to systematize these examples in different ways; that we don't have any kind of accomplishments, we don't have knowledge, we're not in the right kinds of loving relationships.

就像我所说的，不同的理论会尝试,把这些例子以各种方式归类;,比如我们没有任何的成就，我们没有那种知识，我们得到的是不合适的爱情。

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