So, suppose you fall in love with somebody and you decide you want to marry them and then somebody was asked to ask you why and you'd say something like, " "Well, I'm ready to get married this stage of my life; " I really love the person; " the person is smart and attractive; I want to have kids" whatever.

假设你爱上了某人,想要与对方一同步入婚姻的殿堂,要是有人问你为什么想要与对方共度余生,你大概会说，“现在我已准备好要开始婚姻生活了;,或“我真心的爱着他;,或“他聪明有魅力;,“我想要小孩了“，等等。

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There is a kind of cultural myth around the stranger, the person you don't know, who you will--who you fall in love with.

可能对陌生人有一种文化迷思，你不认识他，却将要爱上他。

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They're falling in love with the wrong person.

他们不是爱上错误的人。

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something like that it's not wild enthusiam except actually, the answer to that question ' "when you asked 'did you love this person Avenon'," "he doesn't name that proposed marriage will to you."

诸如此类,这不是野性的狂热,实际上，问题的答案揭晓的时刻,当你问到'你爱阿瓦南吗“,他没有向你提到设想中的婚约“

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There's a country song that Ricky Skaggs sings that has the phrase in it " "Nothing can hurt you like the person you love."

瑞基·斯卡格斯，唱过一首乡村歌曲,其中有句歌词,“没人能像你爱的人那样伤害你“

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The competent person who blunders, this is the person that I love.

有能力的人，偶尔出丑，大爱啊。

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The person is not likely to say, "Oh, I bet it's love."

我朋友不太可能说，，“我猜是爱“

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And these aren't necessarily so incompatible but the evolutionary perspective I think would argue that you can feel that kind of love for more than one person or at least it would facilitate the passing on of your genetic material to a larger array of the next generation.

两种观点不太相容,但是持进化论观点的人认为,你可以和两个以上的人拥有完美式的爱情,至少会促进,你的基因传给更多下一代的人。

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