The most important thing about parenting-- " it's not how much you tell your child "honesty is important" but rather how honest you are.

为人父母最重要的-,不是告诉子女“诚实很重要“,而是你自身有多诚实。

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Here's how to get your child to bring you some beer.

让你的孩子为你拿啤酒的方法也是这样的。

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