But they're two individuals who are committed to being with the other person in a respectful, generous, kind manner while disagreeing on some fundamental things.

但是他们两个人都努力,倾听对方,以相互尊重，宽宏大量并且友善的态度和谐共处,尽管他们在一些基本问题上各持己见。

普林斯顿公开课 - 人性课程节选

Strange to say, too, that night we crossed the ferry with Bull Lee a girl committed suicide off the deck either just before or just after us. We saw it in the paper the next day.

还有件很奇怪的事儿，我们和布尔·李渡过渡口的那天晚上,一个姑娘从船上跳水自杀了，大概不是在我们渡河之前,就是以后，第二天我们从报纸上看到了这个消息。

耶鲁公开课 - 1945年后的美国小说课程节选

Now, what if you have intimacy, we share secrets with each other, but there's no particular physical attraction but we are really committed to this relationship.

那么，如果有亲近感，有共同的秘密，但是没有激情体验,但是双方共同承诺维持感情。

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

I don't want to really know that much about you, I don't want to really share anything of me with you, but I am committed to maintaining this physical attraction to you" Well, that's what Sternberg calls "fatuous love."

关于你，我不想了解太多，也不想和你分享我的秘密，但是我承诺,和你保持这种肉体关系“,斯腾伯格把这种感情叫做愚蠢式爱情“

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选