And so, if that happens, they want their children and family members to be cared for.

一旦这个事件发生，他们希望孩子和家庭成员能有所依。

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They became more self-sufficient, less dependent on other people as rated by themselves and as rated by their family members.

变得更加自立，更少依懒他们，不论是他们自己,还是家庭成员的评估都是如此。

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