So, he finally realizes that Sal actually has a specific love for him, not caring about him somehow in principle, which is the way of course that Dean cares.

所以最后他了解到萨尔对自己有真正爱的付出，原则上是不能在乎的，但迪安当然很在乎。

耶鲁公开课 - 1945年后的美国小说课程节选

We can only show proper love and concern for things that are ours, not things that are common.

我们仅能对我们自己的事,展现适当的爱与关怀，而无法延伸至共同的事物。

耶鲁公开课 - 政治哲学导论课程节选

She was misattributing her own fear as mutual attraction, " as "And I must love him."

把她自己的恐惧当成了对他的爱，“我一定爱他“

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