And if our only questions, ? or primarily our questions are "what is not working?

如果我们只问同一类问题，或只是问“有哪些不如意的事？

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If we only ask these questions, we will miss,literally miss an important part of reality, just like you missed the children on the bus in the exercise.

如果我们只问了这些问题，就会错过现实中很重要的部分，像你们在练习中没看到公车上的孩子一样。

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