The question is from that special eager realistic perspective we were all familiar with, ? which is the one you really care about?

这个问题针对的是,我们都很熟悉的现实角度的问题，你们真正关心的是哪个人？

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If we only ask these questions, we will miss,literally miss an important part of reality, just like you missed the children on the bus in the exercise.

如果我们只问了这些问题，就会错过现实中很重要的部分，像你们在练习中没看到公车上的孩子一样。

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