if you have all three, intimacy, passion, commitment, this is "consummate love" according to Sternberg complete love.

如果亲近，激情和承诺三者兼而有之，这就是完美式爱情，完整的爱情。

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

" Student: "Can someone feel consummate love for more than one person?"

学生：“一个人能同时和两个人以上拥有完美式爱情吗“

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

She is acting out a form: in the first case the form of romantic fiction, the heroine who swoons back in this scene the form of the game, the perfect form of tennis.

她总是摆出一些姿势：,第一次是在爱情小说中疲倦已极的女主角,这一次则是游戏，完美的网球游戏。

耶鲁公开课 - 1945年后的美国小说课程节选

The one secret of success, happiness and a perfect love life.

成功，快乐，完美爱情的唯一秘诀。

哈佛公开课 - 幸福课课程节选

A woman can be proud and stiff When on love intent; But Love has pitched his mansion in ; The place of excrement; For nothing can be sole or whole That has not been rent."

坟或床都无能为力,“当女人专注爱情之时;,她总会高傲自得,但爱情却把它的居所;,设在排泄之处,要明白凡事若要完美，都必须先撕破“

耶鲁公开课 - 现代诗歌课程节选

Oh. Can someone feel consummate love for more than one person?

噢，一个人能否同时和两个人以上拥有完美式爱情？

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

And these aren't necessarily so incompatible but the evolutionary perspective I think would argue that you can feel that kind of love for more than one person or at least it would facilitate the passing on of your genetic material to a larger array of the next generation.

两种观点不太相容,但是持进化论观点的人认为,你可以和两个以上的人拥有完美式的爱情,至少会促进,你的基因传给更多下一代的人。

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