It cultivates the capacity to deal whether it's negative and painful experiences in relationships, or in ourselves.

培养我们处理,无论是人际关系上的消极和痛苦经历，还是我们自身的。

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And so even at really young ages, we want them to be responsible for their own social interactions.

即使是在很小的时候，他们也要学会处理人际关系。

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