I did as my friend asked me to do and this story is the result.

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So I wrote my dissertation on Byron as a result of that-- nothing complicated, no deep reason for doing these things.

所以我论文写的就是关于拜伦的-,没有太多的考虑，就是因为我喜欢。

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And my guess is the result is yes, you could but you're not going to feel un-conflicted about it and it's because these two are conflicting each other at the same time.

我的观点是，你可以爱上两个以上的人，你可以这样做，但是你会内心很矛盾,因为这两者,一直思想一直不停地在做斗争。

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