So to me, I think that one of things we talk with Doc. Gager another night was this, the notion of intimacy.

对于我来说,我们和Gager博士那晚的谈话,话题之一便是“亲密接触“这个概念。

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Now, what if you have intimacy, we share secrets with each other, but there's no particular physical attraction but we are really committed to this relationship.

那么，如果有亲近感，有共同的秘密，但是没有激情体验,但是双方共同承诺维持感情。

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We don't share information with each other anymore so there's no intimacy.

不再分享秘密,不再亲近。

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