If I'm told "not so much for you," you'll suffer relative to him.

如果有人跟我说“你不怎么聪明”,你就会因为他而受到我冷落。

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He'd been diagnosed with, if I recall correctly, cancer as a freshmen--and his doctor had told him that he pretty much had no chance of recovery and indeed had only a couple more years to live.

他大一的时候就被诊断出癌症，如果我没记错的话--他的医生告诉他,他基本上没有治愈的可能了,并且实际上只有几年时间存活了。

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