She was misattributing her own fear as mutual attraction, " as "And I must love him."

把她自己的恐惧当成了对他的爱，“我一定爱他“

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But still, it must be with his own consent, I.E. The consent of the majority, " giving it either by themselves, or through their representatives."

但是这仍须得到他自己的同意，即得到大多数的同意，由他们自己或选出的代表所表示的大多数同意“

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