We were simplifying it,getting it wrong,when we said,Follow the personality.

我们使它简化，误解了它，当我们说遵循人格时。

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It is wrong expectation to expect that getting into a certain place, getting a raise, finding our dream partner, is responsible for our happiness.

错误的期望认为进入某间公司，获得升职，找到理想的伴侣，就能让自己更快乐。

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