If you see a man who is not effeminate, you might ignore it or say maybe he's not really gay after all.

如果你看到不是娘娘腔的同性恋者，你可能会忽视他,或者认为他不是真的同性恋者。

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If you see an effeminate gay man, you'll probably say, "Ah, more evidence for my theory."

如果你看到一个娘娘腔的同性恋者，你可能会说“又一个证据证明我的看法”

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