If you can somehow create a personal relationship with someone who you disagree with, take them for coffee and say: "I just want to hear your point of view."

如果你们能够以某种方式建立友谊,彼此虽然意见不同，你可以和他们一起喝咖啡然后说：,我只想听你的观点“

普林斯顿公开课 - 人性课程节选

You need to listen to what your classmates are saying and say why you disagree with them.

你需要去听你的同学在说什么,跟为什么你和他们意见不一。

耶鲁公开课 - 死亡课程节选

If you have any questions, anything that's not clear, if you agree or disagree with something, email me or email your TF and we'll always respond.

如果你有任何问题或不明白的地方，如果你同意或反对什么观点，请给我或助教写邮件,我们一定会回复的。

哈佛公开课 - 幸福课课程节选

Those who disagree, gather your objections and we'll begin with them next time.

不同意的，收集下反对意见,我们下次继续。

耶鲁公开课 - 公正课程节选