if you have all three, intimacy, passion, commitment, this is "consummate love" according to Sternberg complete love.

如果亲近，激情和承诺三者兼而有之，这就是完美式爱情，完整的爱情。

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It's best if you don't know what that is or even if you do mistakenly attribute it, misattribute it, to physical attraction, romance, intimacy, passion and commitment, it's love.

最好是如果你不知道是什么,甚至如果你错误认定，以为是生理吸引力，浪漫，亲密，激情和承诺，那是爱情。

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