However, if I say we are not in the same ballpark, I mean we cannot agree because my ideas are too different from yours.

VOA: special.2009.04.12

But essentially the only reason there was any way that that was an effective approach was because people basically realize "Oh this is a good idea and we agree with that as a culture."

但是，归根结底，这种方式之所以,能够取得成功，是因为,人们意识到,“哦，这挺好的，我们的文化可以接受它“,“哦，这挺好的，我们的文化可以接受它“

普林斯顿公开课 - 人性课程节选

My argument must be wrong because it goes against the lesson of the class and the lessons of the class are gospel right, they're not wrong ever, so what's wrong with that argument? Yes, Ale Well because you have to be able to agree, you have to be able to speak to them but we aren't allowed to show our partners what we wrote.

这个说法肯定有问题,因为这和我们的结论刚好背道而驰,结论是绝对正确的,结论没错,那这个说法错在哪,艾尔,因为你必须要能够达成一致,你需要和他们谈判,但是我们不允许同伴看到我的选择

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