We don't give ourselves the permission to be human, because we think there is something wrong with us if we experience these emotions.

我们不准许自己为人，因为我们觉得是自己有毛病,如果我们有这样的情绪。

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To have a stereotype is to be-- is to have something wrong with you.

说你有刻板印象-,就是说你有问题。

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