If we have a high frequency, what about the wavelength, long or short? All right. Good. So we should always be able to keep these relationships in mind.

如果频率高，那波长是长还是短？,好，不错，我们要记住这些关系,类似的。

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And that keeps people trapped in abusive relationships but-- And that's number one, ? but what else might be going on?

这些考虑使得人们被困在家庭暴力中-,这是第一个原因，还有什么原因呢？

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I think, for example, in my own relationships,talks about my marriage, where I have to be vulnerable, I have to take a risk, where in fact I have to be willing to change my mind about my reading of the situation, based on my own fears and insecurities and anxieties.

举我自己的感情，我的婚姻作为例子吧，在婚姻中我会很脆弱，我必须冒险，而且，我必须愿意去改变自己,对当前状况的解读，不安全感和焦虑的影响而变得盲目。

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What might be the problem in the statement I just made that these kind of relationships are just as likely to survive as people who marry for love?

我刚才的陈述中存在什么问题,我说的这些种关系,也能像因爱而生的婚姻一样长久？

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