So, cognitive dissonance will lead you then to think that what you are giving it up for has some value and then you establish a liking for it.

这样认知失调就会让你想到,你为之付出代价的东西一定是有价值的,然后你就会喜欢上它。

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When it does happen, and it happens too often for my liking, the students just get a zero.

如果真的有人抄袭了，把我惹毛了，我就会给学生打零分。

对于抄袭的想法 - SpeakingMax英语口语达人

Familiarity is itself a desire for liking, a force for liking.

熟悉是一股喜欢的渴望和力量。

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And this is called the Pratfall Effect, that our liking for the competent person grows when they make a mistake, when they do something embarrassing, when they have a failure experience. Okay?

心理学上，这叫“失态效应，我们对有能力之人的喜爱之情再次升华,当他们犯错，出洋相，经历很衰的事情时？

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