The important thing is to know the exact meaning of that other person because that's the only way to honor the otherness of the person.

重要的是知道另一个人的真正重要性,因为那是尊重那个人独特性的唯一方法。

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The only way to avoid that is to lobotomize me, and that's not desirable.

唯一的解决方法是作额叶切除术，那不是我想要的。

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