So, cognitive dissonance motivates me to create an answer that's more comfortable for me, "This must be a really wonderful group with a wonderful bunch of people."

所以认知失调促使我想出另一个答案,让我可以接受的答案，“这一定是一个很棒的兄弟会，里面的人都很棒”

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If I join a fraternity-- it is also by the way illegal but if I were to join a fraternity and they say, "Welcome to the fraternity, Dr. Bloom.

如果我要加入一个兄弟会…,提醒大家，这是非法的,如果我要加入一个兄弟会，so，–,他们说”欢迎加入我们兄弟会，Bloom博士“

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