That's why I always say my lecture is on love, the definition of terms is about love, but the experiments really are much more about attraction than about love.

这就是为什么我的讲座主题是爱，是关于爱的定义，但是真正地，这些实验,更多的是关于吸引，而不是爱。

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So the question then comes is given that, do you have the courage to examine who you are, do you have the courage to try to cultivate the capacity to love, not just with them in the abstract, but other human beings, not just your family, but what I call "spill-over love".

因此，问题就是，你有没有勇气去审视你到底是谁？,你有没有勇气去培养自己去爱的能力，不仅仅是抽象的爱，不仅仅是爱家人，而是爱其他所有人，这就是我所说的“满溢的爱”

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