I could run away from you. I could turn my head or I could blame you for causing me this misery.

我只要走开，或者不看你就行了,或者我可以怪你让我也感到痛苦。

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And the Freudian response is, "Your rejection of my ideas shows that they are distressing to you.

精神分析的支持者们会回答，“你对我观点的反对,说明这些观点让你感到痛苦。

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Which of the various futures that are open to me are likely to give me the better life, leave me better off, measured in terms of pleasure or pain?

也就是向我敞开的各种未来,哪种能给我更好的生活，让我更幸福，用快乐和痛苦来衡量？

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That could cause me pain but it doesn't mean I'm going to be nice to you.

这会让我也感到痛苦,但这不代表我就要对你好。

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