So, one question is, "What would cause me to perceive somebody as intelligent or stupid, gay or straight, anxious or level-headed?"
第一个问题是,是什么原由让我认为别人是,聪明的,愚蠢的,同性恋的,异性恋的,紧张的,还是冷静的?”
that's the intent is to get people to really engage and speak their minds and listen to each other.
这个的目的是让人们真正参与进来,说出自己的想法,听听别人的想法。
It doesn't really make it any better that you're also going to give amnesia and drive insane somebody else.
这完全不会让我觉得好些,即便你说你要给别人洗脑,把她逼疯。
For some of you, this will seem self-evident; for others, it'll seem like a great puzzle.
对你们中的一些人来说,这似乎显而易见;,但对别人来说这很让人困惑。
The best thing for you is to have the other guy tidy up and the worst thing for you is to tidy up for the other guy.
让别人去打扫卫生是你最希望的结果,你为大家打扫卫生是你最不希望的结果
The book stressed, you've just got to be available.
那本书里强调,你得让别人能找得到你
and want to look, go out and see and be seen.
想出去走走瞧瞧,看看别人也让别人看看的年轻人和成功人准备的,
Gary Gilmore The serial killer Gary Gilmore basically said the pain of others gratified him and caused him no unhappiness at all.
连环杀手,基本上就说过别人的痛苦,让他很高兴,他一点都不讨厌。
He's taken it from somebody else, ; and in doing so I think he's doing this deliberately; he's exposing some of the darker ironies behind his own literary ambition.
但他从别人那里借用了这个说法,他的做法让我认为他是故意这么做的;,他这是在他自己自由意志的背后,表现一些尖刻的讽刺。
Not to think that they're better than anybody else, but to feel that they stand for good.
并不是说让他们觉得,他们比别人优越,但让他们觉得他们是标榜。
.. All right, let's hear someone who... You have to adjust for inflation.
那好,让我们听听别人。,你必须考虑通胀。
The same with making other people feel good-- complimenting people.
让别人感觉良好也有感染力-,恭维别人。
And then it makes your relationship with other people much easier.
用这样的句型会让你和别人相处起来时更加轻松。
and you are spending money on someone else making you food,
你花钱让别人给你做吃的,
Many years ago a colleague of mine gave me a quotation from William Barrett I can't cite the quotation exactly, but it speaks about making one's mind so much like a mirror that others will see themselves in your presence.
多年前我的一个同事和我说过,一段William,Barrett的话,原话我不记得了,说的是让自己的思想成为一面镜子,让别人能从你的存在中看到他们自己。
The person to ask is a magician, somebody whose profession it is to fool people and make it look like they can do things with magic.
你要问的是魔术师,他们的职业就是愚弄别人,让人相信他们有魔法
But it does happen that emotional-- that this sort of empathy does lead to moral concern and action.
但事实是,这种痛苦-,这种移情作用确实会让我们,从道德上关心和关怀别人。
I'm the sort of person who will let people do those things to me.
我就是那种愿意让别人折磨我的人。
So remember that, because I don't think there is anyone in this room who would tell me now, "my goal in life, my objective is to make people miserable.
请记住这一点,我不认为课堂上有任何人,会告诉我,“我的人生目标是让别人不幸。
If we do an experiment and we induce you to feel empathetic to somebody, we get you to feel what they're feeling, you're more likely to be nice to them.
如果我们做一个实验,我们让你对别人产生移情作用,让你感受到他们的感受,你很可能就会对他们很好。
Discussing this game raised not just each person's sophistication, but it raised what you know about other people's sophistication, and you know that other people now know that you understand how to play the game.
对这个游戏的分析,不仅让每个人都更老练了,也使你们更了解别人老练的程度,并且你知道别人知道,你知道如何玩好这个游戏
We have no right to put you in a circumstance where you believe you killed somebody and then tell you it was just pretend-- we just made you kill somebody.
但我们没权把别人置于这种境地,让他们以为自己杀了人,然后又告诉他们,那个人只是装死的-,我们叫你杀了人。
These DPPs go back a long time but there began to be complaints about them because people said, well why is it, because I'm not an accredited investor, I can't get into real estate like these other people do?
PP由来已久,但现在人们开始抱怨,他们说,我不是可信投资者,为什么仅凭此门槛,而不让我像别人一样投资商业地产呢
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