Well, when she was made to look attractive they were delighted when she gave them positive feedback about themselves.

当她打扮得很入时时,他们会非常高兴,如果这个女人给自己积极回应。

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You can only hurt the one you love because you are expecting positive feedback from the one you love.

之所以这样说，是因为,你总期待着他们给你积极地回应。

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I'm not saying this is fair, I'm not saying it's rational I'm not endorsing it, but empirically-- excuse me-- empirically we can see it, that somehow the attractive- the feedback from the attractive person matters more to us.

我没说，这样公平，没说这样理性,我并不赞成，但是实证上，对不起-,通过实证，我们可以明白，有时候有魅力的人-,给我们的回应对我们更重要。

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