Now, what if you have intimacy, we share secrets with each other, but there's no particular physical attraction but we are really committed to this relationship.

那么，如果有亲近感，有共同的秘密，但是没有激情体验,但是双方共同承诺维持感情。

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I don't want to really know that much about you, I don't want to really share anything of me with you, but I am committed to maintaining this physical attraction to you" Well, that's what Sternberg calls "fatuous love."

关于你，我不想了解太多，也不想和你分享我的秘密，但是我承诺,和你保持这种肉体关系“,斯腾伯格把这种感情叫做愚蠢式爱情“

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