How are in conflict resolution, the dominant theme of most people with good intentions want to resolve conflict is let's get the people together, let's get them to talk, and they and we will live happily ever after.

在解决冲突时，大多数人,好心想要解决冲突,让人们坐下来，好好谈谈，然后就能过上幸福快乐的日子。

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So, for instance, they may be people like you who filled in a form, one question along a very long form was your sexual orientation, and then you're sitting down being interviewed by somebody and your interview is being filmed, and then other people are shown--who don't know you are shown the film.

他们可能是像你们一样在填一张表格，在一连串的问题中，有一条是关于你的性取向，然后你坐着，有人问你问题,这个提问过程会被拍下来，然后拿给别人看，这些人不认识你,他们会看这个录像。

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