So, what we really like-- The kind of person we're really attracted to is the competent individual who occasionally blunders.
因此,真正地-,对我们真正有魅力的人,是那些偶尔失态的能人。
He's on a really popular TV show, "Prison Break". Because he's really attractive, so,
他主演了一部非常受欢迎的电视剧,叫《越狱》。他是一个很有魅力的演员,所以呢,
And what has happened is they're using this bodily cue of their heartbeat to infer that that's who they find more attractive.
事实上,他们在用自己身体的信号,心跳的强度来确定谁更有魅力。
We know that Franny is an attractive young woman.
我们知道弗兰尼是个非常有魅力的年轻女孩。
You have passionate, charismastic, and disorganized leaders.
有激情四射充满领袖魅力,但条理不清的领导者。
From the various portraits and descriptions of Hobbes, we can tell he was a man of considerable charm, and I wish that in the book we had had his picture, a reproduction of his portrait, on it.
从霍布斯的各种肖像和描述,我们可以看出他是一个很有魅力的人,我希望我们这本书,这本复印本,能有他的肖像在上面。
And it's, they all in all... it's so inviting, so friendly.
总之大家都……很有魅力,十分友好。
I bet she's very attractive like you.
我敢打赌她肯定跟你一样有魅力。
The people who got the painful shock instruction are more likely to find the confederate attractive.
得到痛击实验消息的受试者,更有可能要先助手很有魅力。
Your rating of the attractiveness of the competent person grows even higher.
对有能力之人的魅力指数评价,一路高涨。
The forms ask how attracted you are to the experimenter.
表格调查你们认为实验的有多大魅力。
How attractive do you find this person?
究竟这人多有魅力?
The experiment you wouldn't think anybody would've done has been done, and women about--a very attractive man, over half of the women approached say, "Yeah, " I will " Very few agree to this , and nobody agrees to this??
这个前人想象不到的实验,最终还是完成了,而女性,面对那个很有魅力的男人,超过半数女人说,“我可以和你一起出去,只有少数答应去他家?
The competent person is rated as much more attractive, ? considerably more attractive, than the mediocre person. Okay?
大家更为有能力的人更有魅力,比那个平庸的人,吸引人得多,对吧?
The effect works both ways so the mediocre become even more lowered in your esteem, in your regard.
不管怎样,有能力的人始终有魅力,平庸之人只会更让你更看不起。
- If the computer-- If they rated their partner as attractive, the randomly assigned partner, they were more likely to continue the relationship.
如果计算机-,如果他们认为自己的搭档有魅力,随机配对的组合,他们更有可能继续发展关系。
So there's kind of this idea that attractive people, their feedback to us has more impact.
所以一些关于有魅力人的观点,他们的回应对我们更有影响力。
And they are wearing headphones that amplify their heartbeat and they are asked among other things how attracted are they to the centerfold photograph that they're looking at.
受试者带着耳机,放大心跳声音的耳机,问了他们很多事情,其中包括他们认为,插页中的裸女多有魅力。
So, suppose you fall in love with somebody and you decide you want to marry them and then somebody was asked to ask you why and you'd say something like, " "Well, I'm ready to get married this stage of my life; " I really love the person; " the person is smart and attractive; I want to have kids" whatever.
假设你爱上了某人,想要与对方一同步入婚姻的殿堂,要是有人问你为什么想要与对方共度余生,你大概会说,“现在我已准备好要开始婚姻生活了;,或“我真心的爱着他;,或“他聪明有魅力;,“我想要小孩了“,等等。
But they also ask questions like, ? "How attractive do you find this person?"
但是他们也会问这样的问题,你觉得这个人多有魅力“
Now you're asked, ?" "Who do you find more attractive?"
这时再问你,“你觉得谁更有魅力“
I can give you the form and ask you to rate how attractive you think I am and I can give you the same instruction with a crucial difference "Please wait here.
我给你们这张表格,对我的魅力指数打分,同样的指示,但有一点重要的差别,我对你们说“请在这儿稍等片刻。
I'm not saying this is fair, I'm not saying it's rational I'm not endorsing it, but empirically-- excuse me-- empirically we can see it, that somehow the attractive- the feedback from the attractive person matters more to us.
我没说,这样公平,没说这样理性,我并不赞成,但是实证上,对不起-,通过实证,我们可以明白,有时候有魅力的人-,给我们的回应对我们更重要。
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