The losing side must come to the winning side and they must ask permission to pick up their dead and bury them.

战败方必须出使战胜方,征求胜方同意,让他们可以,拣回本方死者的尸体进行安葬

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Typically, that is granted and they can then do it, but they are of course humbling themselves by making the request and coming down under the orders of the winners and taking their dead away and being buried.

一般来说胜方都是会同意的,当然战败方肯定要低三下四,卑躬屈膝,然后按照胜方的指示,拿回死者的尸体然后埋葬

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