You have to have the courage to examine who you really are, to come to terms with the dark corner of your own soul.

你必须有审视自己的勇气，面对并接受你灵魂中的黑暗角落。

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And again, to move back and ask ourselves a larger question, would knowing how much time you have be something that would allow you to actually embrace those choices, ? or would it instead just be a burden?

再一次，回到原题，问我们自己一个更大的问题，知道自己还有多少时间,是会让你实际上接受这些选择呢，还是只是一个负担？

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