If you're looking to have an opportunity for a personal reflective... I read this on a retreat last year.

如果你想进行一下自我反省。。。,我去年在度假时读了这本书。

普林斯顿公开课 - 人性课程节选

You're not out of the woods yet Even if you haven't got fixated on anything, there's still this dynamic going on all the time with your id, your ego and your superego.

你并没有脱离险境,即使你并没在任何阶段里发生固着，你的行为仍然会一直受到本我，自我和超我的驱使。

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选