So, one question is, "What would cause me to perceive somebody as intelligent or stupid, gay or straight, anxious or level-headed?"

第一个问题是，是什么原由让我认为别人是,聪明的，愚蠢的，同性恋的，异性恋的，紧张的，还是冷静的？”

耶鲁公开课 - 心理学导论课程节选

The question is "how can I improve my self-esteem, my healthy self-esteem, ? not narcissism of course?

问题是“我如何能提高我的自尊，我健康的自尊，而当然不是自恋？

哈佛公开课 - 幸福课课程节选