Now,what about those Episcopalians? As one of my friends says, "Those whiskey-palians." They decided to be in the middle.
那些圣公会呢?就像我一个朋友所说的,那些威士忌佩利安,他们决定保持中立。
And so I live with a, with a friend who's actually in another graduate school who's doing public health.
我和一个朋友一起住。他和我就读的研究生院不同,他是公共卫生专业的研究生。
My friend Nassim Talib has just written a book about it called-- maybe I'll talk about that--called The Black Swan.
我的朋友纳西姆·塔利博刚刚写了一本书,叫做"黑天鹅现象",以后我会再讲到
No friend that I've ever talked with is one that I actually would want to spend eternity talking to.
我交谈过的朋友中没有一个,是我想与之永远交谈的。
My friend said this was Japanese binding, the way that books open from left to right, backwards.
我的朋友说这是日式缝书法,书页是从左翻到右的。
And so for the three years that I was in the residential colleges, my closest friends on the whole were faculty or were .
因此,那三年来,我住在住宿学院中,总体说来,我最好的朋友,都是教员或一些研究生们。
If in my thought experiment I say to my friend, "Well, I know why you're feeling that way.
如果在思维实验中,我对我朋友说,“我知道为什么你会有这样的感觉。
Then a little car pulls up. It is my friend, Bumpy.
然后有一辆小车出现了,那是我的朋友小颠。
For example, I can-- and having the past experience-- envy towards my best friend, that in and of itself does not make me a bad person.
举个例子,我可以…,因为以前的经历-,嫉妒我最好的朋友,那种情绪本身不代表我是个坏人。
and I used to play tennis here, and my friends take kids to the pool. There's so much to do here.
我过去常来这里打网球,我的朋友会带孩子去游泳池。在这儿可以做的事情太多了。
I could never make a merit of being caviare to the crowd the way my quasi-friend Pound does. I want to reach out, if it were a thing I could do by taking thought.
我不能因为创作大众的阳春白雪而夸耀,就像我的半个朋友庞德一样,我希望伸展开来,如果这是我动脑经就能完成的事。
That also encouraged me to really write more and to really think about what is the story, how are people coming to this and like when I show my friends this, how are they going to react.
这也鼓励我编写更多东西,并且真正思考这个故事是什么,思考人们怎么想它,比如我向我的朋友展示的时候,他们会怎么反应。
In both cases, this becomes part of their self-identity. That's an essential part as my good friend, Linda Colley, who used to teach here and sadly is not here anymore.
在这两个国家中,这点是他们身份认同感中很重要的一部分,如同我的好朋友,琳达·科里,她以前是这里的老师,很遗憾现在不在耶鲁了
And I have a friend who's a Parisian lawyer who works in Africa a lot, and when he was a little boy the Germans came to get his father who was a Greek Jew, and he was taken away and killed, of course.
我有个朋友,是在巴黎的律师总去非洲工作,他小的时候,德国人来抓他父亲因为他是希腊犹太人,他被抓走后遇害
It's an expensive place to live, so most of my friends do try to get part-time jobs to make ends meet.
这个地方生活成本很高,所以我的很多朋友都试着找份能够糊口的兼职。
I've never played World of Warcraft, for example, but I have a lot of friends who do and who still do.
比如说,我从来不玩魔兽世界,但我有很多朋友玩,他们现在还在玩。
But I feel the same thing often when my son brings his friends, maybe that I've known for a long time.
但我也感觉得到,尤其是我儿子带朋友回来时,也许我早认识了。
And so I was collecting from friends and colleagues' computers all sorts of logs that monitored the kind of low level activity that was happening on their computer.
因此我从朋友和,同事的计算机上收集各种各样的日志,这些日志用来监控,他们计算机中的低能级活动。
And so I said, "I'm dropping out and my friends many of them thought I was nuts. There's couple of professors who are still over there who told me I was nuts."
所以我说,“我要辍学,我的朋友都认为,我是个傻蛋,有很多仍然在那儿,教书的教授都说我就是个傻蛋“
If seeing the photograph of my friend now can remind me of my friend, it's got to be because I met my friend before.
如果看到我的朋友的照片,就能想起他/她本人,这是因为我以前见过我的朋友
There's a tendency for loyalty to friends -that's your own friends--and there's this word, other people.
人们还倾向于忠于朋友,我是指你自己的朋友,还有一个词叫做外人
He even said, "I believe I have had friends and family but maybe I am being tricked.
他甚至说,"我相信我拥有朋友与家人,但或许我只是他们的一颗棋子罢了
Right? Nobody would--who's thinking clearly-- would confuse the photograph with my friend.
应该没有人会,把照片和我的朋友搞混淆吧
So my friend decided he'd give it a try and he raised his hand and he said, "Voltaire," and then paused and hesitated and continued with his lecture as though my friend had never asked his question.
所以我朋友也决定要试试,他就举起手说:“伏尔泰“,然后停顿一下,犹豫会儿,就又接着开始讲了,就好像我朋友没问过问题一样。
It's just like the photograph, perhaps the not very good photograph, that reminds me of my friend Ruth.All right.
就像照片一样,或许拍的不好,但是它能让我回想起我的朋友露丝
I was with some friends of my mother long ago, and I remember looking at that and just thinking.
我是和我母亲以前的朋友们一起,我记得自己看着它沉思
All right. So you solve the problem and then, lo and behold, it turns out that: It is my friend Bumpy. Bumpy gives me a push.
好了,你们解决这个问题,然后,你瞧,结果竟是:,这是我的朋友,颠簸,颠簸推了我一把。
Well, he's a good friend of mine, but I think he may be overstating it a little bit; we have some disagreements.
当然他是我一个很好的朋友,但我觉得他在这一点上有点言过其实,我们在这点上意见不合
So, I wrote some very simple software to receive an email from my BlackBerry and then send it out to an email list of some people I put on that list, with my friends and my family on it.
所以我编写一些很简单的软件,来接收我的黑莓手机发来的邮件,然后将其转发给一个邮件列表,这个列表上有我的朋友和家人。
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