I could run away from you. I could turn my head or I could blame you for causing me this misery.

我只要走开，或者不看你就行了,或者我可以怪你让我也感到痛苦。

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And the Freudian response is, "Your rejection of my ideas shows that they are distressing to you.

精神分析的支持者们会回答，“你对我观点的反对,说明这些观点让你感到痛苦。

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That could cause me pain but it doesn't mean I'm going to be nice to you.

这会让我也感到痛苦,但这不代表我就要对你好。

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This is because I am right."

而你感到痛苦又是因为我是对的“

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