The story that I heard that brought home to me the message how important psychology is to wellbeing and to success.
那个故事让我明白,心理学对幸福和成功是多么重要。
Yeah. I could eat chocolate non-stop for the rest of my life and be happy.
喜欢。我可以下半辈子不停地吃巧克力,并且过得很幸福。
And if something within psychopathology I thought could contribute to our wellbeing, I took that and used that.
如果我认为精神病理学的内容能对我们的幸福有贡献,我会吸取并利用之。
While on the shop and street I gazed My body of a sudden blazed; And twenty minutes more or less It seemed, so great my happiness, That I was blessed and could bless.
当我凝视着店铺和街道,我的身躯突然开始熊熊燃烧;,大约持续了二十分钟吧,我的幸福是如此巨大,我受到祝福,也能把祝福施加。
Because I thought about it a lot Welles chose that word I guess obviously that frame was a happy picture ? In the word? Why that word?
因为我对这个问题想了很多,为什么威尔斯要选择这个词,我觉得很明显,这个镜头是幸福的,词内涵的深意?还是为什么选这个词?
Which of the various futures that are open to me are likely to give me the better life, leave me better off, measured in terms of pleasure or pain?
也就是向我敞开的各种未来,哪种能给我更好的生活,让我更幸福,用快乐和痛苦来衡量?
I know that you have just graduated. So do you feel happy now?
我知道你刚毕业。那么你现在感到幸福吗?
Happiness for me, would be... probably
对我来说,幸福就是……很可能
is today I'm happier than I was 15 years ago when I started focusing on this pursuit.
我今天是否比我15年前刚开始关注追求幸福时更幸福。
Second, because I think it is one of the most important pillars of wellbeing and happiness.
第二,因为我认为它是,快乐和幸福的最重要支柱之一。
5 years from now I certainly hope to be happier than I am today.
5年后我当然希望自己能比今天幸福。
If I'm happier, I'm more likely to contribute to other people's happiness and wellbeing.
如果我更快乐,我更有可能,对他人的快乐和幸福作出贡献。
Because my question, ?" my guiding question was "what would contribute to happiness?"
因为我的问题,我的引导性问题是“什么会对幸福有贡献“
But more importantly,more successful in just as the currency of happiness and wellbeing.
更重要的是,我将“更成功,正如快乐货币和幸福货币一样。
" What would help me become happier if I were sitting there?"
如果我坐在这,什么能让我更幸福“
How do I determine whether or not I am happy?
我如何判断自己是否幸福?
" How can I become happier?"
我怎样才能变得幸福“
Now, in thinking about these points, ... in effect I'm suggesting that the value of your life-- so ,we previously were talking about different theories of well-being ? and what makes for the best kind of life.
考虑这些观点的时候,实际上我建议你的生命价值-,我们之前谈到了,幸福的各种理论,即最美好的生活是怎样的。
Yeah, you are going to have a spike in your level of wellbeing-- I'm sure you had a spike in your level of wellbeing when you got this acceptance letter, but very quickly we go back to our base level.
没错,你们会感觉极至的幸福-,我肯定拿到录取信时,你们的幸福感也达到峰值,但很快又恢复到基础水平。
And what I want to do now is illustrate a case study of what I mean by nature constrained and why it is so important for happiness, for wellbeing, for long-term success to have the constrained view of human nature when it comes to our psychology that is.
现在我想演示一个案例研究,说明我所谓的本性受约束的含义,为何它对快乐,幸福,长久的成功如此重要,当论及到我们的心理时,人性受约束观点很重要。
" So my answer to this question-- "am I happy?"
所以我对这个问题的回答--,“我幸福吗“
" How well off was I, having lived that life?"
那样的生活到底给了我多少幸福“
Cos many people sit here during the lectures on self-esteem, for example, or when we talk explicitly about happiness, ?" they say, "Wait. Do I have self-esteem?"-- Thinking to themselves.
因为很多人坐在这听有关自尊的讲座时,比如,或者当我们明确地讨论幸福时,他们说,“等等,我的自尊心强吗-,他们自己想到。
Why? Because many people ask me, ?" "So Tal, are you happy?"
为什么?,因为很多人问我,“那么Tal,你幸福吗“
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