We're glad you spent this time with us, and we hope you have a blessed and peaceful day. Take care.
很开心你们能和我们一起度过这段时光,希望你们能度过一个幸福而平和的一天,保重。
It just so happened that they're living more fortunate than we are, you know.
只是碰巧他们活得比我们更幸福,你懂的。
Positive emotions not only contribute to our success, they don't just contribute to our feeling good, they also contribute to our wellbeing.
积极情绪不仅有助成功,不仅能让我们感觉好,还有助我们获得幸福。
We can ask ourselves, ?" "What would our life look like? Would it be better or worse?"
我们自问,“我们的人生会是怎样的?是更幸福还是更不幸“
In the light of human mortality, the disinterest of the gods, the chanciness of life, what can man do to achieve happiness and immortality?
既然人生苦短,又没有什么神灵保佑,生死都只是随机事件,那我们怎么才能达到幸福和不朽呢
We are beings for whom the exercise of the will is a preeminent feature and much of our happiness as human beings depends upon our capacity to exercise our will and our ability for choice.
作为人,意愿的运用是,一种卓越的特性,我们作为人大多数的幸福感,取决于我们运用,意愿和能力来选择。
We hope for our children's happiness more than our own.
我们希望孩子们幸福要甚于希望自己幸福。
so we're happy that it's sunny here
所以,我们在这里能有这么好的艳阳天是很幸福的,
Once you deal with happiness and then mysteries, you're really not going to want to-- What is there?
学完幸福,我们就会学神话,你们可能会想-,还有什么要学的?
You can pick out words that are identical. The purpose of the law is to "establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty."
你可以找出完全相同的话,法律的目的是,“树立正义,保障国内的安宁,建立共同的国防,增进全民福利和确保我们自己及我们後代,能安享自由带来的幸福“
Bentham says we have to consider the welfare, the utility, the happiness of everybody.
边沁说我们必须得考虑,大众的福祉,功利,大家的幸福。
Yes and no. It was fascinating to be as Wordsworth says, "Bliss was it in that dawn to be alive" -to be around in those days, but at the same time I think it's rather advantageous for us to be still "in theory."
可以说会,也可以说不会,正如华兹华斯所说,“能活在那黎明时光是何等幸福“,虽然过去对人有很大吸引力,但同时我们还是,只在理论层面研究比较好“
Let's just get them together to talk,to resolve their conflict and their issue and then we will all live happily ever after.
让他们交谈,解决他们的冲突,和他们的问题,然后我们就能过上幸福生活。
And if something within psychopathology I thought could contribute to our wellbeing, I took that and used that.
如果我认为精神病理学的内容能对我们的幸福有贡献,我会吸取并利用之。
They are the No. 1 predictor of life success as well as wellbeing, as we'll talk about.
它们是人生成功和幸福的头号预言,我们将会谈到。
Not lower high expectations-- that won't make a difference to our levels of wellbeing.
而不是低的和高的期望-,那不会影响我们的幸福水平。
And the answer is that-- yes it won't make a difference to our wellbeing but it also doesn't mean that we cannot increase our level of wellbeing.
答案是-,是的,它不会改变我们的幸福水平,但并不意味着,我们不能提升自己的幸福水平。
There's a lot of research to show that helping ourselves, in other words, working on our happiness, contributing to our wellbeing, leads us to also be more generous and benevolent toward others.
很多研究表明自我帮助,换言之,努力为自己争取快乐,有助我们获得幸福,也能引导我们对他人更加宽容和亲切。
And if we had more time we could spell out rival theories of well-being, which could be interestingly distinguished one from another in terms of how they answer the question, ?" "What's missing from the experience machine?"
如果我们有更多的时间,我们可以谈谈幸福的各种理论,有意思的是,它们各不相同,他们对这个问题的答案不同,即“体验机器里缺少了什么“
That's when we stop giving ourselves the permission to be human, and we pay a price, in terms of our energy levels, of our wellbeing, of our happiness, of our creativity, and ultimately also our success.
那时我们停止准许自己为人,为此我们付出代价,包括精力水平,幸福感,快乐感,创造力,最终以成就大小作为代价。
Now, in thinking about these points, ... in effect I'm suggesting that the value of your life-- so ,we previously were talking about different theories of well-being ? and what makes for the best kind of life.
考虑这些观点的时候,实际上我建议你的生命价值-,我们之前谈到了,幸福的各种理论,即最美好的生活是怎样的。
And what I want to do now is illustrate a case study of what I mean by nature constrained and why it is so important for happiness, for wellbeing, for long-term success to have the constrained view of human nature when it comes to our psychology that is.
现在我想演示一个案例研究,说明我所谓的本性受约束的含义,为何它对快乐,幸福,长久的成功如此重要,当论及到我们的心理时,人性受约束观点很重要。
What will make a difference to our levels of wellbeing is if we have right vs. wrong expectations.
能影响幸福水平的,是我们的期望是正确还是错误。
Because it's not just information that determines our wellbeing, our success, our self-esteem, our motivational level, the relationship and the quality of our relationships.
因为信息无法决定我们的幸福感,我们的成功,自尊,动机水平,两性关系及其质量。
Again,tie to success as well as wellbeing, if we are more toward the positive side.
注重健康的同时也要注重幸福,如果我们是较为积极的话。
Note that it is not about helping ourselves and others become happy.
注意这不是关于帮助我们自己和他人变得幸福。
Extreme circumstances make very little difference to our wellbeing.
极端情况对我们的幸福影响很小。
I'll take this even a step further, even though there is no research about this, I bet you this is correct: there is no difference in our levels of wellbeing if our place of residents is by the river or in the .
我会进一步说明,虽然还没有这方面的研究,我敢和你们打赌,下面的说法是正确的:,我们的幸福水平不会有所不同,不论我们是生活在河边,还是呆在监狱。
Just like the lottery would make a very little difference to our wellbeing.
就像中了彩票,对我们是否幸福影响甚微。
The natural laws for Hobbes are not divine commands or ordinances, he says, but they are rules of practical reason figured out by us as the optimal means of securing our well-being.
对霍布斯来说,自然法不是神圣的法令,或者条例,但这些是,我们发现的实践理性的法则,就像一种最佳的方式保护我们的幸福生活。
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