I could run away from you. I could turn my head or I could blame you for causing me this misery.

我只要走开，或者不看你就行了,或者我可以怪你让我也感到痛苦。

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And the Freudian response is, "Your rejection of my ideas shows that they are distressing to you.

精神分析的支持者们会回答，“你对我观点的反对,说明这些观点让你感到痛苦。

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Once again,they don't spontaneously emerge once the painful experiences go away.

再说一次，幸福不会自动出现,并不是没有痛苦就能感到幸福。

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Because if you were dead, you'd have neither pleasure nor pain.

死了即不会感到快乐也不会感到痛苦。

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That could cause me pain but it doesn't mean I'm going to be nice to you.

这会让我也感到痛苦,但这不代表我就要对你好。

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This is because I am right."

而你感到痛苦又是因为我是对的“

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There are people who are basically screwed by the fact that they get less than the average amount and people who are benefited by getting more than the average amount.

有些人为此而感到痛苦,因为他们活得比平均寿命短,有些人则得到了额外好处,因为他们活得比平均寿命长。

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The philosopher Spinoza thought that ... if we could only recognize the fact, what he at least took to be the fact, that everything that happens in life is necessary, then we'd get a kind of emotional distance from it; it would no longer upset us.

哲学家Spinoza认为,如果我们能够认识到这个事实，至少他认为这是事实，即生活中的一切事情都是必然的，那么它对我们的情绪影响就比较少;,它不会再让我们感到痛苦。

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