So, this is the sadness of the novel.It's this unrequited love; Dean is never capable of loving Sal in the same way that Sal loves Dean.
所以这也是这本小说的悲伤,是这个无回报的爱情;,迪安从没能真正像萨尔爱他一样爱过萨尔。
I mean, I see that the love is there, how could it not be?
我是说,我就看到了真实的爱情,我怎么还能不信呢?
Let your repentance salt my shoe leather," I said presently, " and then, as I lately sheathed my blade of anger, so sheath you my blade of love."
你的悔意只配擦我的皮鞋,我当即就说“,方才我收起愤怒之剑时,也收起了对你的爱情之剑“
They're theories of everything, encompassing just about everything that matters, day-to-day life, child development, mental illness, religion, war, love.
它们试图对世间的一切做出解释,包括了日常生活,儿童发展,心理疾病,宗教,战争及爱情。
Why can't he write love poetry, secular poetry, instead of this much more disciplined, much more difficult mode of sacred and prophetic poetry ? that he seems already to have wedded himself to?
为什么不写爱情诗,世俗的诗,而是这些,拘束难写的庄严的充满套路的,他似乎长久以来一直都在写的诗呢?
Love has pitched his mansion in the place of excrement."
但爱情却把它的居所设在排泄之所“
The one secret of success, happiness and a perfect love life.
成功,快乐,完美爱情的唯一秘诀。
that may seem hot here it's a little hard and the dialogue is very interesting in that point cuz the prince says: "I know you think you can love me."
也许有爱情的成分,这有点为难,那些对话也十分的有趣,王子说:,我想你认为你可以爱我“
Well,for our purposes,the romance isn't crucial.
这里爱情罗曼史不是关键的。
But if you set out trying to implement this whole story line at once, if you set out trying to implement a cookie love story, it's just not gonna fly.
但是如果你一开始就想一次啃掉整块蛋糕,譬如你一开始就想,完成这个饼干人的爱情故事,你会发现这是行不通的。
So we have a lot of sort of love and marriage imagery, husband and wife imagery, used for God and Israel, but we also have this parent and child imagery that appears.
我们有很多关于爱情和婚姻的隐喻,夫妻的隐喻,用于上帝和以色列之间,但是我们也有亲子之间的隐喻。
If George Dardess is right that this is a love story, it's the love story between Sal and Dean.
如果就像George,Dardess所说,这是个爱情故事,那么这是萨尔和迪安的爱情故事。
if you have all three, intimacy, passion, commitment, this is "consummate love" according to Sternberg complete love.
如果亲近,激情和承诺三者兼而有之,这就是完美式爱情,完整的爱情。
To the lion it is the lioness which is made to be loved; to the bear the she-bear.
雄狮在雌狮面前,陷入爱情;,公熊会在母熊面前这样。
This is sort of the-- maybe the Greek ideal in relationships of some kind.
这种关系-,可能是希腊哲学中的理想爱情。
She is acting out a form: in the first case the form of romantic fiction, the heroine who swoons back in this scene the form of the game, the perfect form of tennis.
她总是摆出一些姿势:,第一次是在爱情小说中疲倦已极的女主角,这一次则是游戏,完美的网球游戏。
They talk a lot, as Sarah said, they talk a lot about abstract questions, and this puts the meaning of the story in that abstract register. Is it a love story, or is it a religious story, a mystifying story?
他们谈论了很多,如萨拉所说,他们谈论了很多,很抽象的问题,这使得这个故事,变得抽象了,这是个爱情故事吗,有的或者是个宗教故事,还是个神秘故事呢?
Women want to dream about romance and adventure.
女人想梦见爱情和冒险。
And I mentioned three reasons, Why we need it as an independent field as opposed to just being " "well,let's do some studies on happiness,on relationships" ? as it is always being done?
我提到了三个原因,为何我们把它作为独立的研究,而不简单地,“研究一下幸福和爱情“,不像一贯人们所做的那样?
This is often the way relationships start "We like each other, I'm physically attracted to each other, I-- to you, I enjoy spending time with you but I'm not making any long-term commitments.
爱情经常以这种形式开场,我们喜欢对方,享受肌肤之亲-,享受一起度过的时光,但不做长远的承诺。
This is what Sternberg calls "companionate love."
这种情况,斯腾伯格称之为伴侣式爱情“
Well, as I say, different theories would try to systematize these examples in different ways; that we don't have any kind of accomplishments, we don't have knowledge, we're not in the right kinds of loving relationships.
就像我所说的,不同的理论会尝试,把这些例子以各种方式归类;,比如我们没有任何的成就,我们没有那种知识,我们得到的是不合适的爱情。
Sternberg calls that "romantic love."
斯腾伯格称之为浪漫式爱情“
That's romance. That's romantic love.
这就是浪漫,浪漫式爱情。
It's a Hollywood romance.
好莱坞式的爱情。
How about relationships?
那爱情呢?
Students, graduate students who said I want to do as you do. I want to write about love and sex, the meaning of life and film and one shot is I always say, but where you gonna get a job?
我的研究生有的说,我想和你一样写爱情和性爱,揭示生活的意义,写电影,和,镜头,我会这么回答,你去哪里找工作?
And these aren't necessarily so incompatible but the evolutionary perspective I think would argue that you can feel that kind of love for more than one person or at least it would facilitate the passing on of your genetic material to a larger array of the next generation.
两种观点不太相容,但是持进化论观点的人认为,你可以和两个以上的人拥有完美式的爱情,至少会促进,你的基因传给更多下一代的人。
This was important to Milton, - and one of the big set-piece speeches in Paradise Lost -- - and you may remember it if you've read that poem -- is the hymn that begins "Hail, wedded Love."
这对弥尔顿来说是至关重要的,在《失乐园》中有一个让人印象深刻的片段-,如果你们读过那首诗也许还记得-,那是一首赞美诗,以“致敬,已婚的爱情“开头“
That's a question for you: is it the greatest love story of our time?
我问你们,这是我们时代最伟大的爱情故事吗?
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