Similarity predicts the success of a marriage and through a phenomena people aren't exactly sure about, couples become more and more similar over the course of a relationship.

相似性能预测到一段婚姻是否会成功,人们也解释不清这个现象，相处久了，夫妻之间就有了夫妻相。

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Sublimation is you might have a lot of energy, maybe sexual energy or aggressive energy, but instead of turning it to a sexual or aggressive target what you do is you focus it in some other way.

升华是你有很多的能量，可能是性能量，也可能是攻击能量，但你并未将它们指向性目标或攻击目标,而是将这些能量以其他方式进行了释放。

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