Would they say that you're just glorifying suffering, you're just relishing in it and you don't want help these people?
或许有人说,你只是在美化受苦而已,不过是添油加醋地赞美它而已,根本就是不想帮助别人?
And I feel better about helping people that way than giving a dollar to somebody on the street,
我觉得以这种方式帮助人比在大街上施舍别人一美元更有意义,
But here I have the opportunities to someone something, and then you see them act upon it in a month's later, a year's later.
但我能有机会去帮助别人,并看到他们能因此在一个月后,甚至一年后,收到效果,作出改变。
I think it actually helps to help one or two go.
我认为这事实上对别人起到了帮助作用。
To talk to other people about them, rather than just be thinking constantly about how miserable I am because my girlfriend just left.
向别人倾诉更有帮助,要胜过总是想着,被女朋友甩了多么的惨。
He knew things that I don't know, he has a genius for formulating theories, and helping people make discoveries, that I can't do in science.
他知道我所不知道的事情,他是创造理论的天才,帮助别人做探究,这些我在科学领域做不到。
Is anyone else pre-med here? Okay, so a pretty good showing. So maybe you can relate to some of the reasons I wanted to be pretty pre-med -- part of it was the interest in the science and the biology. Also, I wanted to help people -- it seemed like a really clear way that I could have a career that was challenging and involved in science, but also helping others.
你们中有医学预科的吗?,不错,有不少人,也许你们出于和我当年,想读医学预科一样的原因,一方面是受灾科学和生物学方面兴趣的驱使,另一方面,我想帮助别人,所以我似乎应该选择。
I think this is a case where they need help, not deserve it, but I think, again, if you had a certain level of requirements to meet sustenance, you're gonna need help, like, if you don't have food or a place to live, that's a case of need.
我认为这个例子中,他们需要帮助,但并不他们是应得的,不过我认为,如果你在一定程度上需要他人救助以维持生计,你就需要别人的帮助,比如,如果你没东西吃,没地方住,这才是需要帮助。
and then I could see it really help people, you know, with their lives and everything and
然后我看出这真的对别人有帮助,帮助他们的生活和一切,
If there's a group, responsibility to help decreases and this is captured in different ways but the main idea is we all think someone else will help so we don't. There's a diffusion.
如果是一群人,帮助的责任就会分散变小,这体现在多个方面,但最主要的想法就是我们都认为别人会帮助,所以我们就不帮助了,责任被分散了。
We have many billionaires in this country and I think that the only thing you have to do with it is philanthropy. They have to give it away because they are essentially satiated.
我们国家有很多亿万富翁,但对于有钱人,有一点必须做的就是,他们必须给予别人物质上的帮助,是因为他们已经够丰衣足食的了
And we announced t need anybody else and we knew better than anyone else.
我们宣布,我们不需要任何人的帮助,that,we,didn’,别人知道的我们都知道。
What do you think is the most important thing for helping people?
你认为帮助别人最重要的是什么?
thinks about other people, wants to help other people,
为别人着想,帮助他人的人,
This single book helped me understand myself better as well as other people better-- whether it's politically, whether it's psychologically, whether it's philosophically.
这本书帮助我更好地了解自己,更好地了解别人-,不论是政治上,心理上还是哲学观上。
It works the other way as well, because helping others also helps ourselves.
别人快乐你也快乐,因为帮助他人也是帮助自己。
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