By torturing the bodies we cause pain to the minds,the personalities, who have beliefs about who's hurting.
通过折磨肉体,我们对意识和人格造成痛苦,对相信自己被伤害的人造成痛苦。
So it really hurt me a great deal.
所以,它对我的伤害非常大。
That's what hurts, -- the person who always was positive who now-- whose regard starts to fade.
真正伤害你的,是一直对你好的那个人-,开始冷淡你。
Because there is a lot of research that shows when we praise people indiscriminately, we are actually in the long run potentially hurting them more than helping them, whether it's their wellbeing,as well as their success.
因为有很多研究显示,当我们不加区别地赞扬别人,我们实际上是在长期地,默默地伤害他们,而非帮助他们,无论是对他们的幸福感,还是成功。
So again, if you're at X and the winner is at Y, it hurts you minus the distance between X and Y, in terms of your unhappiness, about having a winner who's far away from you, winning.
再说一遍,如果你在X且获胜者在Y,它对你的伤害等于X和Y之间的距离,即,当选人和你之间的距离,这就是你在选举之后郁闷的程度
People did say they were happy to have participated and only 2% said that they were sorry, but still serious damage could have been done and perhaps was done.
但确实有人说他们很高兴能参与实验,只有2%的人说他们感到难过,但这个实验可能对电击者造成严重的伤害,也许已经造成了。
Oh. You can only hurt the one you love. Right?
你只会被所爱的人伤害,对吧?
It's important to notice something when it's new because then you have to decide whether it's going to harm you, how to deal with it, to attend to it, but you can't keep on noticing it.
能够注意到新鲜事物的出现是非常重要的,因为你需要确定它是否会对你造成伤害,需要确定如何去处理这个新鲜刺激,但你不能一直去注意它。
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