So we know that, so he will be there to comfort you and give you whatever help you need.

我们理解大家,所以他会在那里安慰你,给你提供任何需要的帮助

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In trying to comfort your friend you could ask about his situation by using a "When" question.

为了安慰你的朋友，你可以用“When”问句来询问他的情况。

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