Similarly, if a child is to say, "I hate your guts, Mother," it's an unusual mother, "That's wonderful.
同样,如果孩子说,"我讨厌你的肠子,妈妈",也不会有家长说,"太棒了
If you were a child in the New York City, growing up in New York City,
如果你是个在纽约出生并长大的孩子,
If everything is the same, you know, when you were a kid someone would say, which has a higher boiling point, a quart of water or a gallon of water?
如果每个东西都一样,当你是个还是一个孩子的时候,有人说,那个有更高的沸点,1夸脱水还是1加仑水?
And the kid, if you were to see him, you'd say, " "That's--Boy, he's--he really looks as if he's sad" because he was.
如果你能看到那个孩子,你一定会说,“天呐,这孩子看起来真伤心啊“,因为他本来就伤心。
If you could take your five year-old or eight year-old in to get a vaccine that was orally administered instead of a shot that's a much easier thing to do.
如果你带着五岁或者八岁的孩子,去口服而不是去注射疫苗,那将会轻松许多
So for instance, if a child says to his mother, "I loves you, Mommy," it's a very unusual parent who would say, "Oh, no. The verb agreement is mistaken.
例如,如果孩子对妈妈说,"我爱你,妈妈",很少有家长会说,"不对,动词一致性错了
If you speak to your children in perfect English, it's very strange.
如果你用完美的英语表达和你的孩子说话,会是非常奇怪的
And so, rewarding children has a danger, which is if you give them too much reward and too much a value for what they're doing they will denigrate the activity.
所以奖励孩子是有隐患的,如果你给他们太多奖励,赋予他们的活动太多价值,他们就会贬低这个活动。
Similarly, if you're dealing with immature humans and you want your child to get you a beer, you can't just sit, wait for the kid to give you a beer and uncap the bottle " and say, "Excellent. Good. Hugs."
类似的,如果你要训练的是未成年人,如果你想让你的孩子帮你拿一罐啤酒,你就不能只是坐着,等孩子把啤酒拿给你,然后你打开瓶盖,说,“太棒了,来抱一下“
Any of you who have access to a four- or five-year-old, a sibling or something-- Do not take one without permission, but if you have access to a four- or five-year-old you can do this yourself.
如果你身边有四五岁大的孩子,兄弟姐妹什么的,一定要先得到同意再去试验,如果你身边有四五岁大的孩子,你可以自己去试试
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