In the condition where she was made to look attractive but gave you bad feedback about yourself, often the subjects in that condition would look for an opportunity to interact with her in the future, obviously to try to prove that her evaluation was wrong.

当一个漂亮女人,对自己评价不好时，这种条件下的人,常常会以后寻找机会,和她相处，明显想证明她的判断是错的。

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And you don't agree that it's your fault. But she does think it's your fault.

你并不承认这是你的错。但她觉得是你的问题。

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